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Wendi Cancilla

Wendi Cancilla, LMHC

Therapist in Washington

Supportive, practical therapy for self esteem and stress

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24 years of experience listed

LMHC professional credentials

English languages

  • Skill focused
  • Trauma informed
  • Goal oriented

About Wendi

Wendi Cancilla is a licensed mental health counselor with 24 years of experience who helps people manage stress, anxiety, low self esteem, trauma, and grief. She supports those facing parenting strain, anger or addiction concerns, and people coping with major life changes or career stress. Her tone is steady and practical, aimed at people who want clear steps and real-life strategies.

In sessions she listens for what matters most to each person and focuses on building useful skills. Wendi often uses problem-focused conversations and goal-oriented exercises to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning. She also draws on trauma-focused methods when past harm interferes with current life.

Her work emphasizes collaboration and skill-building. Clients can expect structured sessions that balance talking through problems with concrete tools to try between meetings. She pays attention to how stress, sleep, and relationships affect mood and behavior.

Wendi has long experience helping people who face complicated health or caregiving burdens, abandonment or attachment concerns, and blended family stress. She also supports people navigating issues related to adoption and foster care, autism spectrum concerns, chronic pain and medical illness, and co-occurring mental health challenges.

She holds the LMHC credential and practices in Washington. Sessions are conducted in English. To begin, a brief matching questionnaire and scheduling step helps connect people with the right fit and timing.

How Wendi Uses Approaches Online

Wendi commonly draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Trauma-Focused Therapy in her work. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and testing small changes to reduce anxiety and improve mood. Trauma-Focused Therapy helps people process past hurts and build safety and coping when traumatic memories affect daily life.

Choosing the right approach is a team effort. She talks with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped before. Together they adjust methods over time so the work matches real needs and practical goals.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people use video or phone options depending on what works best for them. Licensed professionals tailor the structure so sessions focus on skill practice, coping strategies, and problem solving that carry over into everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger management

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefSleeping disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesHIV / AIDSIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSexual assault and abuseVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

Washington, Florida

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this therapist address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, low self esteem, trauma, grief, parenting concerns, anger, addictions, sleep problems, ADHD, career stress, compassion fatigue, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical. She combines focused conversation with skills and homework to help people make day-to-day changes.

What is her professional background?

She has 24 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of life and mental health challenges.

What credentials and location apply to this clinician?

She is an LMHC practicing in Washington and holds licensure in Florida and Washington as FL LMHC and WA LMHC.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with this therapist?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How is payment handled and what does it cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with this clinician?

Click the continue button on this profile, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time based on the therapist's availability.

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