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Prof. Vanessa Costello

Prof. Vanessa Costello, LPC

Therapist in Oklahoma

Practical therapist for self-esteem and stress

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10 years of experience listed

LPC professional credentials

English languages

  • Goal focused
  • Values aware
  • Skills oriented

About Vanessa

Prof. Vanessa Costello brings a decade of counseling practice to her work in Oklahoma. She holds a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with credentials in Arizona and Texas as well as Oklahoma. She combines practical approaches with a values-aware perspective to help people who feel stuck or overwhelmed.

Vanessa aims for a straightforward, respectful style in sessions. She treats people as the experts in their own lives and focuses on small, useful steps that build confidence. Conversations often center on clearer thinking, improving communication, and managing stress so daily life feels more doable.

Her background includes work with a wide age range, from young adults to seniors, across counseling agencies. Over ten years she has helped people facing anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, and low self-esteem. She also supports those dealing with caregiver stress, fertility concerns, midlife shifts, and career uncertainty.

In sessions Vanessa draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman Method principles, and Trauma-Focused Therapy. She mixes direct skill-building with reflective conversation to address both thoughts and behaviors. Sessions may include goal setting, problem-solving, and practice tasks between meetings.

Vanessa describes therapy as a team effort. She listens for strengths and works with each person to set realistic steps toward change. If you want a practical, compassionate therapist who focuses on self-esteem and everyday functioning, she may be a good match.

How certain approaches translate to online care

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with real-world actions. It is often used for anxiety, depression, stress, and self-esteem concerns by teaching people practical skills they can use between sessions.

The Gottman Method centers on communication and relationship habits. It helps people improve listening, reduce conflict cycles, and rebuild connection through structured exercises and clearer interaction patterns.

Motivational Interviewing is a conversational approach that supports people who feel stuck or unsure about change. It helps clarify personal goals and strengthens motivation to take small workable steps forward.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Vanessa works collaboratively to match methods to a person's goals, needs, and preferences, and she adjusts plans as progress is made. The client and therapist decide together what feels most helpful.

Confirm current session options before booking since formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make scheduling easier and reduce travel time, which helps fit sessions into school, work, or caregiving routines. Some formats also allow shorter check-ins or audio-only conversations when that better suits someone's day. Ask about the available session types when you arrange the first appointment.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Caregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Texas, Arizona

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and self-esteem struggles, plus grief and life changes.

What is her approach in sessions?

Her style blends skill teaching and conversation. She uses practical tools to change unhelpful thoughts and improve communication.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of professional counseling experience working in agency and clinical settings.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and holds licensure in Arizona and Texas; her practice is based in Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are accepted; check scheduling and time zones when arranging sessions.

How are costs and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps do I take to begin therapy?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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