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Tinia Holleman-Soto

Tinia Holleman-Soto, LMFT

Therapist in California

Supportive LMFT who focuses on self esteem

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15 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • Client-centered
  • Practical tools
  • Collaborative care

About Tinia

Tinia Holleman-Soto is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California who helps people facing low self esteem, stress, anxiety, and relationship strain. She meets people where they are and works side by side with them. Sessions focus on practical steps people can use day to day to feel steadier and more confident.

She earned a master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Southern California. Early in her career she worked as a behaviorist with very young children with developmental delays and collaborated with speech and occupational therapists. Later she shifted to work supporting children, teens, and parents through school-based services and clinical settings.

Over 15 years she has supported people dealing with depression, trauma and abuse, ADHD, grief, addiction concerns, and parenting challenges. She also helps with communication problems, caregiver stress, life transitions, and questions about purpose and intimacy. Her experience includes coordinating care with psychiatrists, social workers, and school districts.

Her approach blends client-centered work with cognitive behavioral ideas and existential therapy. That means she pays attention to how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect, while also helping people make choices that match their values. Sessions are collaborative and nonjudgmental, with the therapist and client working as a team.

Reaching out for help takes courage, and she frames change as a step-by-step process. People who want practical tools and steady support to rebuild self worth and manage life’s ups and downs may find this style helpful.

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based ideas focus on how early relationships shape current connections and trust. Online sessions can explore patterns of closeness and distance, helping people understand why they react a certain way in relationships and practice different responses.

Client-centered therapy centers on listening without judgment and following the client's lead. In remote sessions this often means starting where the person feels most comfortable and building trust so they can talk about self esteem, stress, or parenting concerns at their own pace.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts affect feelings and behavior and uses concrete strategies to change unhelpful patterns. For issues like anxiety, low self esteem, or mood problems, CBT provides step-by-step exercises that can be reviewed and practiced between sessions during online work.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work collaboratively to figure out which methods fit a person's needs, goals, and preferences. That may mean combining listening-focused work with practical CBT tools so sessions feel useful and relevant.

For details about session formats, confirm the current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also makes it possible to keep continuity of care when schedules or locations change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Caregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, self esteem, parenting challenges, ADHD, and relationship and family difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style blends client-centered listening with cognitive behavioral techniques and existential ideas. Sessions focus on how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect and on making choices that fit personal values.

How much experience does she have?

She has 15 years of clinical experience working in schools and community settings, including early work with young children with developmental delays and later roles supporting children, teens, and parents.

What credentials and location does she hold?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, practicing in California.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies by location and with therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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