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Payam Kade

Payam Kade, LMFT

Therapist in California

Compassionate help for low self esteem and stress

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26 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English, Persian languages

  • 26 years experience
  • Speaks English Persian
  • CA LMFT

About Payam

Payam Kade is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 26 years of practice in California. He helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, low self esteem, and depression. He speaks English and Persian and accepts international clients. He describes therapy as a place to speak honestly without judgment and offers support as people take steps toward change.

Payam draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people manage symptoms and improve daily functioning. Sessions focus on talking through current problems, building coping skills, and strengthening confidence. He works with clients to identify patterns that underlie repeated conflicts or painful feelings and then tries out practical alternatives together.

His background includes long clinical experience across a range of concerns, from mood disorders to trauma and issues around relationships and separation. He also addresses related problems such as chronic illness, compulsive behaviors, abandonment issues, and guilt or shame. That breadth helps him connect common threads across a person's history and present-day difficulties.

In sessions he aims to create an open environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Therapy often includes setting concrete goals, practicing new responses, and reviewing progress between meetings. He frames the work as a partnership where the client’s goals guide the pace and focus.

People who want to start are invited to use the site’s matching process to connect and schedule according to therapist availability. Costs vary with location and a subscription model is used that can be canceled at any time.

How evidence-based methods translate to online therapy

Payam uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on concrete skills and problem solving. These approaches involve identifying unhelpful patterns, practicing new behaviors, and tracking progress over time. That practical focus is useful for issues like anxiety, depression, obsessive behaviors, and relationship difficulties.

He also works from trauma-informed principles, meaning he pays attention to safety, pacing, and the ways past experiences affect present reactions. That helps people who have experienced abuse, neglect, or repeated relationship wounds to move forward at a comfortable pace.

Finding the right technique is part of the process. He collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals and preferences. Clients and therapist check in regularly and adjust the approach as progress is made or new needs appear.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work helpful because it makes scheduling easier, reduces travel time, and allows shorter check-ins when life is busy. Online sessions can also make it simpler to keep continuity when circumstances change, though specific formats and logistics should be confirmed when arranging appointments.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentChronic pain, illness, and disabilityControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityMen's issuesMidlife crisisNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

26+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English, Persian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Payam address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression, along with related problems such as chronic illness, compulsive behaviors, and grief around separation.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques and a practical, conversational style that focuses on coping skills and clear goals. Sessions emphasize honest sharing and trying out new responses to recurring problems.

What is his professional background?

Payam has 26 years of professional experience working with a wide range of mood, trauma, and relationship concerns.

Where is he licensed and practicing?

He is licensed in California as a LMFT and practices with that licensure in mind.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Persian.

Can international clients work with him?

Yes, he accepts international clients; confirm any scheduling or time zone details when you arrange appointments.

How does cost and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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