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Patrick O'Leary

Patrick O'Leary, LMFT

Therapist in California

Experienced therapist for life transitions

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41 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • 41 years experience
  • Client-centered approach
  • Focus on self esteem

About Patrick

Patrick O'Leary is a licensed marriage and family therapist in California with 41 years of clinical experience. He focuses on guiding people through major life changes and personal struggles. Patrick aims to make therapy straightforward and practical for day-to-day life.

He works with concerns such as addiction, relationship and intimacy issues, anxiety, depression, and self esteem. He also helps with parenting stress, grief, eating issues, bipolar mood swings, and career concerns. Patrick draws on many years of practice to meet each person where they are.

In sessions he pays attention to how life events and past patterns shape current feelings. He helps people name what is getting in the way and try small experiments to change it. Communication skills, facing guilt and shame, and building healthy coping are common focuses in his work.

His style blends client-centered listening with practical tools from cognitive behavioral and mindfulness approaches. Narrative and solution-focused ideas are also used to reframe problems and set realistic goals. The aim is to help people find clearer choices and steady habits they can use outside of sessions.

Patrick invites people from varied backgrounds to explore growth at their own pace. He emphasizes respect for individual values and works collaboratively to develop plans that fit each person’s life. Those interested in starting are asked to use the site’s matching and scheduling steps to begin.

Approaches used in online work and how they help

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening closely and reflecting back what matters to the person. It helps people feel heard and clarify their own goals. Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thoughts and behaviors and teaches specific skills to change unwanted habits and reduce distress. Mindfulness therapy trains attention and awareness to reduce reactivity and improve emotional regulation.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Patrick will work together with each person to decide which methods fit their needs and goals. That conversation is collaborative and can change as therapy progresses.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so please confirm current session options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when time is limited. It can also let people use video when they want face-to-face contact or opt for audio when bandwidth or a quieter setup is preferable. Licensed professionals can adapt these approaches to the online setting so techniques like CBT exercises, mindfulness practices, and narrative work still translate into practical steps for daily life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCancerCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameMidlife crisisMood disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

41+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Patrick help with?

He works with addiction, relationship and intimacy issues, anxiety, depression, self esteem, grief, parenting stress, eating concerns, and related challenges.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Sessions combine attentive, client-centered listening with practical tools. He uses cognitive behavioral and mindfulness ideas along with narrative and solution-focused techniques.

What is his professional background?

Patrick has 41 years of clinical experience supporting people through life transitions and emotional challenges.

Where is he licensed and based?

He is a LMFT licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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