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Nina Lupo

Nina Lupo, LMFT

Therapist in Washington

Practical, compassionate therapy for stronger self worth

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25 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • Direct and thoughtful
  • Strengths focused
  • Practical tools

About Nina

Nina Lupo is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Washington with 25 years of experience. She works with adults, families, and young adults who are trying to move past fear, shame, or low self-worth. Nina aims to make therapy straightforward and useful so people can feel stronger and more capable in day-to-day life.

Her background includes roles in non-profit work, independent practice, education, advocacy, case management, consultation, and supervision. She studied psychology at the University of Washington and completed graduate work in Clinical Psychology at Pepperdine University with an emphasis in marriage, family, and child therapy. Early in her career she contributed to Dr. John Gottman’s marital therapy research project.

Nina describes her style as direct, compassionate, and thoughtful. She typically combines a person-centered stance with solution-focused techniques so sessions stay practical and goal-oriented. Her work often addresses stress, anxiety, relationships, trauma and abuse, parenting concerns, self esteem, grief, and career challenges.

Therapy with her is collaborative. She helps people find tools that match their needs and encourages clients to draw on their own strengths. Whether someone wants short-term strategies for a specific issue or longer-term work to explore painful patterns, she offers guidance and practical skills.

She recognizes the weight of current events and collective stress and aims to provide steady support. Nina is committed to helping clients build resilience, clearer communication, and a stronger sense of self.

Therapeutic approaches and what online work can look like

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and empathy. The therapist follows your lead, helping you discover your own answers and build self-esteem through understanding and reflection. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect and uses small experiments and skill practice to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change unhelpful patterns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people understand emotional bonds and communicate needs more clearly in relationships.

Finding the best approach is a shared process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, strengths, and preferences and then suggest ways to work together. Sessions can shift over time, mixing approaches to match what feels most effective for your situation.

Confirm the current online session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also makes it possible to maintain continuity of care during life transitions. Your therapist will discuss which format and pacing make the most sense based on your goals and everyday routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseParenting issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBody imageCommunication problemsControl issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Washington

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, self esteem struggles, grief, career questions, and related issues.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a person-centered approach combined with solution-focused methods and practical techniques. Sessions tend to be direct, compassionate, and oriented toward useful tools.

How much experience does she have?

She has 25 years of clinical experience across non-profit, independent practice, and educational settings, and has served in roles such as therapist, case manager, advocate, consultant, and supervisor.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds the LMFT credential and practices in the state of Washington.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What do I need to do to begin?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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