Michelle Haptonstall is a licensed professional counselor with 15 years of experience in Colorado. She helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, or big life changes. Her work often centers on relationship concerns, communication struggles, and the emotional effects of separation or loss.
Michelle spent years working in school and community settings before moving into her current practice. She focuses on young adult issues and supports people who are facing abandonment wounds, attachment questions, guilt, shame, loneliness, or struggles with self-harm and self-love. She is attentive to diverse identities and offers a non-religious therapeutic space with sensitivity to LGBTQ+ experiences.
In sessions she aims to make the emotional load easier to name and manage. Conversations cover practical ways to cope, rebuild connection, and strengthen how someone talks to themselves. She works at a pace each person can handle and helps set clear, realistic goals for change.
Clients can expect help sorting through relationship patterns, improving communication, and navigating transitions such as divorce or other major life shifts. Michelle uses plain language and direct feedback so people can try new approaches between sessions. Her intention is to support healthier self-esteem and more resilient coping over time.
Michelle tailors her work to each person rather than offering one fixed method. She partners with people to find what fits their needs and life circumstances, helping them take practical steps toward better emotional balance.
Approaches that support self-esteem and relationship work
Many clients looking to boost self-esteem or manage anxiety benefit from structured, evidence-based techniques that focus on thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. One common approach helps people identify unhelpful thinking patterns and try different, more balanced ways of thinking so anxiety and self-criticism ease over time. This method is useful for worry, low self-worth, and depressive thinking.
Another helpful focus is on attachment and relational patterns. This style looks at how early connections shape current relationships and communication habits, and then practices new ways of relating. It can help with abandonment wounds, communication problems, and building healthier connections with others.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide what fits best based on needs, goals, and personal preferences. Together they will try techniques, review what helps, and adjust the plan as progress is made.
Confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are available. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people connect from different locations, which can help maintain continuity of care during life transitions.
She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, and self-esteem struggles, plus relationship and communication problems and life changes like divorce or separation.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
The approach is compassionate and practical, with plain language and clear goals. Sessions focus on coping skills, improving communication, and building self-compassion.
What is her experience background?
She has 15 years of experience working in both school and community settings before practicing in Colorado.
What credentials and location should I know about?
She holds the LPC credential, which stands for Licensed Professional Counselor, and is based in Colorado.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the US work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What do I need to do to start working together?
Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session based on the therapist's availability.