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Dr. Mary Cotten

Dr. Mary Cotten, TX Psychologist 24906, NM Psychologist PSY0791

Therapist in Texas

Practical, experienced support for self esteem and stress

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30 years of experience listed

TX Psychologist 24906, NM Psychologist PSY0791 professional credentials

English languages

  • CBT focused care
  • 30 years experience
  • Texas and New Mexico

About Mary

Dr. Mary Cotten helps people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what to do next. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, low self esteem, and life changes. Her writing and speech are calm and direct, and she aims to make sessions straightforward and useful.

Mary Cotten holds licenses as a Texas psychologist and a New Mexico psychologist. She has 30 years of experience supporting people with mood disorders, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, bipolar concerns, ADHD, and workplace or career stress. She also helps people sort family of origin issues, codependency, divorce and separation struggles, and aging or geriatric concerns.

Her main method is cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, which focuses on noticing unhelpful thoughts and trying different behaviors. In sessions she helps people spot thoughts that get in the way and practice new, more helpful ways of thinking and acting. The goal is concrete change rather than abstract talk.

Dr. Cotten describes herself as relaxed and non-judgmental. She listens closely and offers practical strategies to reach personal goals. Feedback from others has highlighted that she is easy to talk to and a good listener.

Appointments can be arranged to fit a typical workday or into evenings. Before booking, confirm the current session options so you know what formats are available and which will work best for your schedule.

How Dr. Cotten Uses CBT Online

Dr. Cotten mainly uses cognitive behavioral therapy, often called CBT. CBT helps people spot unhelpful thoughts and test different behaviors to see what works better. It is commonly used for anxiety, depression, stress, and self esteem concerns and focuses on clear steps people can practice between sessions.

She combines listening with practical suggestions and homework tasks. Finding the right fit is part of the process, and she works together with each client to choose approaches that match their goals and preferences. That collaborative process helps decide which techniques to use and how quickly to try them.

The original biography mentions both video and phone as ways she can connect, so confirm which session options are currently offered before booking. Online work can make it easier to schedule sessions around work or family demands, reduce travel time, and allow consistent check-ins during life transitions. Phone sessions can be a good option when a shorter check-in is needed or when video is not convenient.

If you want to know more about session lengths, timing, or the mix of techniques that might be tried, ask when you schedule so you can plan what will fit into your day.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesCodependencyControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesPost-traumatic stressWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Texas, New Mexico

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, self esteem challenges, grief, addictions, trauma and many life changes.

What is her general therapy style?

She uses a straightforward, relaxed approach and emphasizes practical strategies. Sessions focus on noticing unhelpful thoughts and trying different behaviors.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She brings 30 years of experience working with a wide range of concerns including mood disorders, trauma, ADHD, and workplace issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Texas Psychologist 24906 and a New Mexico Psychologist PSY0791, and she practices from Texas.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are costs handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Choose the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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