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Mary Cabarles

Mary Cabarles, LCSW

Therapist in California

Calm guidance for building stronger self worth

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18 years of experience listed

LCSW professional credentials

English languages

  • Practical coping skills
  • Values-based work
  • Attachment focus

About Mary

Mary Cabarles, LCSW, focuses on helping people rebuild self worth and steadiness during stressful life changes. She meets people where they are and offers a calm, steady presence for sorting through anxiety, grief, or relationship concerns. Conversations are practical and grounded, aimed at small steps that add up to real change.

Her background includes nearly two decades in social work across many settings. Mary has experience in group homes, residential treatment, job coaching, and work with people facing homelessness, domestic violence, and comorbid disorders. She has also worked in criminal justice and public sector roles and supported people in hospice and geriatric settings.

Mary uses a mix of approaches to match each person’s needs. She draws on cognitive behavioral ideas to help reframe unhelpful thoughts, acceptance and commitment strategies to clarify values and action, and attachment-based perspectives to look at how relationships shape wellbeing. Sessions emphasize clear goals, practical skills, and reflective conversation.

Her independent practice grew during the pandemic to respond to rising stress, displacement, and financial strain. Mary aims to be a steady listener who helps people plan, vent, and take concrete steps forward. She notes additional experience with caregiving stress, body image, addiction concerns, and first responder issues.

Mary is licensed in California as an LCSW and has 18 years of post-graduate experience. She offers more weekend availability and works in English.

How Mary’s approaches translate to online work

Mary often uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people name what matters to them and take small committed steps toward those values. ACT can be useful for anxiety, stress, and building a more meaningful routine. Attachment-Based Therapy is used to look at how early and current relationship patterns shape reactions and self worth; this can help when intimacy, communication, or trust are concerns.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Mary will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they choose strategies and adjust the plan as progress or needs change.

Confirm current session options before booking. If online sessions are offered, they can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow check-ins during workday breaks or evenings. Some formats are simpler for quick check-ins or when bandwidth is limited, while others offer fuller conversation time. Ask about available formats when you schedule so sessions match your routine and needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Trauma and abuseSelf esteemCompassion fatigue

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary commonly address?

She helps people facing trauma and abuse, self esteem struggles, compassion fatigue, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, and intimacy-related issues. Career changes and coping with life transitions are also common topics.

What is Mary’s therapy style like in sessions?

Sessions tend to be practical and conversational, with an emphasis on small, doable steps. She blends reflective listening with tools to manage thoughts and behavior.

What experience does she bring to the work?

Mary has 18 years of post-graduate experience in social work across group homes, residential facilities, job coaching, criminal justice, and hospice settings. That range informs how she approaches complex life issues.

Where is Mary licensed and based?

She is licensed in California as an LCSW and practices in that state.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with Mary?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Mary?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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