Lawrence Goncalves Jr. is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) with 25 years of hands-on experience. He focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, and self esteem challenges. He aims to leave people feeling, thinking, or performing better than when they first met him.
He began his work after earning a B.A. in Juvenile Counseling from the University of Washington. Early roles included community mental health work with youth, juvenile offenders, domestic violence shelters, and group homes. He later earned a Master of Social Work from the University of Washington and became an LICSW.
Over his career he has provided services across many settings and with a wide range of people from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds. He has experience with grief, parenting strain, sleep problems, anger, and relationship issues such as communication problems and infidelity. He also addresses attachment and abandonment concerns, co-dependency, and blended family stress.
In sessions he draws on several approaches to make therapy practical and usable. He uses client-centered listening alongside tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. He also uses Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing methods for trauma-related concerns and draws on existential ideas when people are sorting values and meaning.
Lawrence emphasizes a safe therapeutic connection as the foundation of helpful work. He blends techniques so people can try strategies that fit their daily life. He invites a collaborative process to set goals and adjust the work as needs change.
Therapeutic approaches that translate well online
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building a strong rapport. It prioritizes the person's goals and perspective, and helps shape sessions around what matters most to them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) teaches practical skills to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, useful for anxiety, depression, and sleep problems. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) adds concrete skills for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and improving communication in stressful moments.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods match their goals and preferences. That conversation can include trying different techniques and adjusting the plan as needs change.
Confirm current online session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Many people find online sessions easier to fit into daily life because they remove travel time and can be scheduled during breaks or between activities. Video sessions allow visual cues for skill practice, while phone sessions can make check-ins simpler and require less bandwidth. The emphasis is on choosing what helps a person practice skills and apply changes in everyday situations.
AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSexual assault and abuse
Therapeutic approaches
Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy
Experience
25+ years
Credentials
Washington
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does Lawrence address?
He works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, bipolar disorder, depression, addictions, family and parenting challenges, grief, sleep problems, anger, self esteem, coping with life changes, and coaching.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He uses a client-centered approach with practical tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. He blends listening with skill practice to help people try new ways of thinking and coping.
What experience does he bring to sessions?
He has 25 years of experience, including work in community mental health, youth group homes, domestic violence shelters, and juvenile services. His background spans a wide range of settings and populations.
What are his credentials and location?
He is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker - WA LICSW - and practices in Washington state.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English only.
Does he take international clients?
He is not currently accepting international clients.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with him?
Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions based on therapist availability.