Lara Shemali is a licensed mental health counselor with 29 years of practice in Washington. She focuses on practical tools to reduce stress and manage anxiety while helping people rebuild confidence and self esteem. Her work also addresses relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, addiction recovery, and depression.
She talks with people in a straightforward way and aims to create a nonjudgmental space for honest conversation. Sessions emphasize building skills you can use outside of therapy, such as stress reduction techniques and strategies to cope with anxiety. She encourages people to move toward goals that matter to them in daily life.
Her background includes long experience supporting recovery from substance use and other addictive behaviors. She also helps with attachment and abandonment concerns, communication problems, commitment issues, and difficulties that come with blended-family dynamics. Body image, chronic pain or illness, and dissociation are also within her focus.
Lara uses a mix of commonly used therapeutic approaches to match each person’s needs. That includes methods that look at thoughts and behaviors, approaches that emphasize emotional connection, and work that supports values-based choices. She will tailor the balance of these methods to your situation.
She recognizes that scheduling can be a barrier, so she offers weekday hours and may provide evening or weekend appointments when available. To begin, people complete a short intake and schedule a session based on what works for them. Her goal is to help people take steady steps toward greater confidence and daily functioning.
How her approaches translate to online therapy
Lara draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy as part of her work. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and emotions without getting stuck, then choose actions that match their values to move forward. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and creating a respectful space where people can talk through what matters most to them.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. She will work with each person to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences, and adjust the mix as progress is made. That collaborative planning helps shape session focus and homework between meetings.
The biography does not specify exact online formats, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week by reducing travel time and allowing appointments outside typical business hours when the therapist has availability. It can also make shorter check-ins or focused skill-practice easier to schedule around work, school, or caregiving responsibilities.