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Dr. Lance Smith

Dr. Lance Smith, LMFT

Therapist in California

Healing relationships, building self worth

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25 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • 25 years experience
  • LMFT in California
  • Focus on relationships

About Lance

Dr. Lance Smith is a licensed marital and family therapist with 25 years of experience. He works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family conflict, grief, addictions, trauma, and self esteem struggles. He aims to make people feel respected and heard so they can speak honestly about what brought them to therapy.

He uses clear, practical conversation to identify what matters most to each person. Sessions focus on real problems and small, doable changes rather than long lectures or jargon. He listens for patterns in relationships and thought habits that keep problems going, then helps people try different responses.

Dr. Smith draws on several approaches to match the needs of the person sitting across from him. That can include attention to attachment and relationship patterns, client-centered listening, cognitive behavioral techniques to change thinking and behavior, and solution-focused steps to move forward. He also uses ideas from the Gottman Method when couples want concrete communication skills.

Over his career he has supported people coping with ADHD, panic and post-traumatic stress, parenting strain, caregiver stress, and end-of-life concerns. He also addresses issues like abandonment, attachment wounds, multicultural concerns, and shame or guilt. His goal is to help people build more self-love and stronger connections with others.

Dr. Smith practices in California and holds the Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential. He speaks English and works collaboratively to set goals and plans that fit each person’s life.

How his approaches translate to online work

Dr. Smith often uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationship patterns shape current connections; this approach helps people understand why they react a certain way with loved ones. He also uses Client-Centered Therapy, which centers on active listening and helping people find their own solutions through a respectful, nonjudgmental relationship. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is another common tool he draws on to identify unhelpful thinking and try practical behavior changes that reduce anxiety or low mood.

Finding the right approach is a shared process. He partners with each person to decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences. That means plans can change as progress is made or as new concerns come up, keeping the work focused on what the individual wants to achieve.

Please confirm the current online session options before booking, because specific formats are not listed in this profile. Many people find online work helpful for fitting therapy into a busy life, using shorter check-ins, or avoiding travel time. Licensed professionals can adapt attachment work, client-centered listening, and CBT techniques to remote sessions so the core therapeutic tasks still move forward.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Utah, California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he help people with?

He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family conflict, addictions, trauma and self esteem issues among others.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He keeps sessions practical and conversational, focusing on listening, identifying patterns, and trying small changes that can make daily life easier.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has 25 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples, and families on a wide range of concerns.

What credentials and region are associated with this therapist?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and practices in California.

Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the profile does not list specific formats.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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