Ernestine Tennefos is a licensed professional counselor who helps people struggling with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and self esteem. She also supports people facing grief, relationship or intimacy concerns, anger, addictions, parenting challenges, and big life changes. Her approach aims to make the first step feel doable for someone who is worried or unsure.
Ernestine creates a calm, nonjudgmental space where thoughts and feelings can be talked through. Sessions are shaped around each person's goals, with practical tools introduced at a pace that feels manageable. She blends client-centered work with techniques drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness to help people notice unhelpful patterns and try new responses.
Over 15 years of experience have included helping people cope after difficult events and navigate relationship and parenting stresses. That background informs a gentle, steady style focused on small, actionable changes rather than quick fixes. Ernestine encourages people to build skills for emotional regulation and clearer communication.
Clients can expect a conversational tone and a focus on real-life problems. Homework and short exercises are offered when helpful, such as simple mindfulness practices or thought-record tools from CBT. The work is collaborative, with goals reviewed and adjusted over time.
Ernestine holds the LPCC credential, licensed in New Mexico, and sees clients in English. To begin, she asks people to pick the continue button on this profile and complete a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.
How these approaches translate to online work
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and following the client’s lead so people feel heard and understood; online sessions allow that same conversational style and steady presence. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and behaviors and offers specific tools to change patterns, which works well over focused online meetings where short exercises and thought records can be assigned and reviewed. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and strengthen awareness; brief guided practices fit naturally into remote sessions.
Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods feel most useful based on goals, symptoms, and daily demands. That plan can shift over time as needs change, and clients are involved in every step.
The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Many people find online sessions help fit therapy into a busy week, allowing appointments without travel and making it easier to keep consistent check-ins. Shorter exchanges or scheduled longer conversations can both be used to match time constraints and where someone is in their healing work.
She supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self esteem, addictions, grief, anger, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting challenges, family concerns, and coping with life changes.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is conversational and nonjudgmental. Sessions focus on practical steps, listening closely, and adapting to each person's pace and goals.
What experience does she bring to sessions?
She brings 15 years of professional experience working with people after difficult events and through relationship and parenting stresses.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds the LPCC credential and is licensed in New Mexico.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current session options before booking.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are needed to get started?
Choose the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.