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David Bonfanti

David Bonfanti, LMFT

Therapist in California

Direct, practical therapy for everyday challenges

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20 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • Focus on reactions
  • Skill building
  • Values driven

About David

David Bonfanti is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with about 20 years of clinical experience. He focuses on practical, down-to-earth help for people dealing with anxiety, depression, relationships, addiction, and self esteem concerns. He aims to help people regain hope and build skills they can use every day.

David describes his work as straightforward and focused on reactions rather than blame. He encourages people to accept what has happened while finding ways to move forward. Sessions can feel hard at first because self-reflection often brings up painful feelings, but that is part of making change.

His approach blends several therapy methods to fit each person’s needs. He uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice thoughts and values, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to change unhelpful thinking patterns, and attachment-informed ideas to improve relationship understanding. Motivational Interviewing and Narrative Therapy also appear in his work to support change and reframe difficult stories.

David has worked across many settings and with a wide range of concerns over two decades in California. He draws on that varied experience when helping people handle grief, parenting stress, trauma, career worries, sleep and eating problems, and more. He speaks English.

People who want practical, direct guidance and someone who will help them build lasting coping skills may find his style a fit. To begin, follow the Start Therapy flow to complete the matching questionnaire and schedule sessions according to availability.

How his approaches guide remote work and progress

David uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values; this can reduce the hold of negative thinking. He also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify and change unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to anxiety, depression, and sleep or eating problems. Attachment-based ideas inform conversations about relationship patterns and how early bonds shape current reactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He collaborates with each person to pick strategies that match their goals and preferences, adjusting methods as needed rather than sticking to a single technique. That way people help shape the plan and feel ownership of the changes they make.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy schedule and keeping consistent momentum between appointments. Because specific session formats were not listed in the biography, confirm the current options before booking. Many people find that remote sessions make it easier to attend regularly, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and let therapy fit into work, caregiving, or other daily responsibilities.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSex addictionSexual dysfunctionTrichotillomaniaVisually impaired

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

California, Utah, Arizona

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does David address?

He helps with a wide range of issues including anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship and intimacy concerns, grief, parenting stresses, self esteem, trauma, and sleep and eating problems.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

His style is straightforward and practical, focusing on how people react to problems and helping them develop skills to manage challenges.

What is his professional background?

He has about 20 years of experience working in mental health and brings experience from multiple settings to his clinical work.

What credentials and region are listed for the therapist?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with licensure in Arizona and California and practices in California.

Does he offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and he does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Session formats were not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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