Carrie Gajowski is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people coping with stress, anxiety, relationship hurt, LGBT concerns, and struggles with self esteem. She focuses on emotional safety and practical steps people can take when life feels overwhelming. Her tone is direct and empathetic, aimed at people who want clear guidance and real change.
Carrie has seven years of clinical experience and works from a client-centered stance. Sessions are built around the person's immediate concerns and what they want to change. She draws on a mix of approaches including cognitive behavioral methods and acceptance-based ideas to create straightforward, doable tools for daily life.
In therapy she pays attention to how past hurts, shame, and codependent patterns still affect choices today. Conversations often include learning better communication, setting boundaries, and reducing anxiety. When relationship dynamics or episodes of emotional abuse are present, she helps people name patterns and plan safer next steps.
Clients can expect short-term strategies and longer-term reflection when needed. Carrie also addresses life-purpose questions, midlife shifts, sexuality, and loneliness in ways that connect feelings to practical action. Her work aims to help people feel more capable, more self-loving, and more able to make decisions that match their values.
Sessions are offered in English and conducted from her California practice. People who want to begin complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule based on therapist availability.
Approaches used in online therapy and finding the right fit
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice unhelpful thoughts without getting stuck in them and focus on what matters most. It can be useful for anxiety, self esteem, and making values-based choices. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and teaches practical skills to reduce anxiety and change unhelpful patterns. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and creating a respectful space so a person can find their own answers and build confidence.
Deciding which method to use is a shared process. The therapist will talk with the person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Plans are adjusted over time based on what works in real life, so people can try practical tools and reflect on progress together.
Confirm the current session options before booking so you know how sessions are scheduled. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into busy days, cut travel time, and keep appointments during life transitions. It can also allow shorter check-ins or sessions that focus on skills practice when that fits the client's needs. Licensed therapists can help tailor session length and pacing to daily schedules and responsibilities.