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Brett Smith

Brett Smith, LMFT

Therapist in California

Direct therapist focusing on trauma and self esteem

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22 years of experience listed

LMFT professional credentials

English languages

  • 22 years experience
  • LMFT in California
  • Veteran background

About Brett

Brett Smith is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 22 years of experience. He helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, low self esteem, depression, trauma, addiction, and relationship problems. He also supports concerns such as grief, sleep and eating issues, anger, career strain, and compassion fatigue.

Brett draws on his own experience as a combat veteran and a former law enforcement officer to understand trauma from both clinical and lived perspectives. That background guided his long-term focus on personality disorders and trauma symptoms, and it shapes how he listens and responds in sessions. His approach is direct and practical, aimed at helping people get unstuck and move toward a fuller life.

He primarily uses dialectical behavior therapy, with tools from cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness work when helpful. He also integrates hypnotherapy and Jungian ideas when they suit a person’s goals. Sessions focus on concrete skills, clear feedback, and building everyday coping strategies.

Brett's bedside experience includes conducting emergency psychiatric assessments, which he says sharpened his diagnostic skills and ability to untangle complex cases. That experience informs a pragmatic style in routine care as well as in times of crisis.

Outside of therapy, Brett and his wife are avid sailors and outdoors people who enjoy backpacking, kayaking, and training dogs. He also shares educational videos on his YouTube channel that cover topics discussed in sessions.

Approaches that translate to online work

Dialectical behavior therapy emphasizes emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and improving how people relate to themselves and others. It can help with intense emotions, relationship struggles, and patterns that cause repeated problems. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors. It is practical for anxiety, depression, self esteem, and everyday coping skills.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist works collaboratively to see which methods fit a person's goals and preferences, and may adjust techniques as needs change. Clients and the therapist choose strategies together based on progress and comfort.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Many people appreciate the flexibility online work can offer, such as fitting sessions into a busy day, avoiding travel time, or choosing a shorter check-in when schedules are tight. Online sessions can make it easier to continue care while traveling or during life transitions, and they support using homework and real-world practice between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationFamily of origin issuesFirst responder issuesInfidelityJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexuality

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)HypnotherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Brett address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, self esteem, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, sleep and eating problems, parenting strain, ADHD, and related areas listed in his specialties.

What is his therapeutic style like?

His style is direct and practical. Sessions typically focus on skill-building, clear feedback, and steps people can use between meetings.

How much experience does he have?

He has 22 years of clinical experience and a long history working with trauma and personality disorder presentations.

What credentials and region are listed for this therapist?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California.

Which languages and international options are supported?

Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before scheduling.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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