Bente Hansen is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) in California with more than 20 years of experience. She focuses on stress and anxiety, relationship concerns, grief and loss, and issues around self esteem and motivation. Her approach is respectful and down-to-earth, aimed at helping people take the first steps toward change.
She uses a mix of approaches to meet each person's needs. Conversations and the plan in sessions are tailored to what feels most useful for the individual. Bente emphasizes honest dialogue, practical coping skills, and emotional understanding rather than one-size-fits-all solutions.
Clients can expect a calm, compassionate presence and work that balances exploring feelings with developing manageable tools. She draws on Attachment-Based ideas to look at patterns in close relationships and on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address unhelpful thinking and behavior. Emotionally-Focused elements are used when people want to deepen emotional awareness in relationships.
Bente also brings psychodynamic perspective to understand how past experiences shape current reactions. That history-focused work is combined with concrete strategies for day-to-day problems like sleep disruption, workplace stress, or social anxiety. She pays attention to caregiver stress, chronic illness, and end-of-life concerns when they affect wellbeing.
Sessions are offered in English and Danish. Bente does not accept international clients. To begin, follow the site Start Therapy steps and schedule according to availability.
How her approaches shape online therapy
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns in close relationships and helps people understand how early bonds influence current reactions. This approach can be useful when relationship trust, closeness, or recurring conflicts are part of the problem.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and changing behaviors that keep problems going. It is practical and often used for anxiety, low mood, and stress management.
Emotionally-Focused approaches help people name and process strong feelings and use that emotional awareness to change how they relate to others. That can be helpful for improving connection and reducing repeated conflicts.
Finding the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, try different methods when needed, and adjust plans based on what is working. Clients are invited to share preferences and concerns so sessions match their needs.
Session options are not listed in the biography, so confirm current session formats before booking. Many people find online work helpful because it can fit into a busy day, avoid travel time, and make it easier to schedule brief check-ins during a break. Others appreciate that some sessions can focus on practical skills and worksheets, while others spend time on deeper emotional work depending on the goal.
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, and self esteem. Additional areas include caregiver stress, chronic illness, communication problems, and workplace issues.
What is her therapy style like?
Her style is respectful and practical. She combines emotional exploration with tools you can use between sessions.
How much experience does she have?
She has over 20 years of professional work experience as a therapist in California.
What credential and location should I know about?
She holds a California LMFT license and practices in California.
What languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and Danish.
Can I work with her from outside the United States?
She is not accepting international clients at this time.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started?
Use the continue button on this profile, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.