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Alexandra Lopez de Haro

Alexandra Lopez de Haro, LMHC

Therapist in Hawaii

Compassionate counselor for trauma and self esteem

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13 years of experience listed

LMHC professional credentials

English, Spanish languages

  • Trauma recovery focus
  • English and Spanish
  • Hawaii based LMHC

About Alexandra

Alexandra Lopez de Haro is a licensed mental health counselor with 13 years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people who struggle with trauma and abuse, low self esteem, depression, anger, and major life changes. She speaks English and Spanish and practices in Hawaii.

Her sessions aim to be warm and straightforward. She listens for what matters most and helps people build concrete skills to cope day to day. Conversations often include tools for managing strong emotions, rebuilding self worth, and setting small, achievable goals.

Alexandra works with people from many backgrounds, including those navigating cultural transitions and questions of identity. She pays attention to attachment patterns, codependency, and relationship communication so clients can change how they relate to others. Immigration-related stress and multicultural concerns are part of her regular caseload.

Therapy typically includes practical strategies and focused processing of painful memories. She uses mindfulness practices to help with grounding and relaxation. Sessions also address body image, shame and guilt, and problem areas like impulsivity and isolation.

Her style is collaborative and strength-based. People who want clear tools and steady support to rebuild self esteem and move through hard life events may find this approach useful. To begin, readers can follow the site process to match and schedule a first appointment.

Approaches and how online work can fit your life

Alexandra integrates evidence-based techniques that focus on both skills and processing. Cognitive behavioral approaches help people identify unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors to reduce depression and anxiety symptoms. Mindfulness-based practices teach simple grounding and breathing tools to lower stress and improve emotional regulation.

She also uses trauma-focused processing to help people make sense of painful memories and reduce their ongoing impact. That work is paced to the personand paired with coping strategies so stress is easier to manage between sessions. Together the therapist and client decide which methods to emphasize, tailoring the plan to goals and comfort level.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life. It can cut travel time, allow scheduling across time zones for international clients, and make it simpler to keep regular appointments. Confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are available. The therapist will help choose an approach and a schedule that fits your needs and daily routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Trauma and abuseAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMulticultural concernsNarcissismPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

Hawaii

Languages

English, Spanish

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?

She works with trauma and abuse, self esteem struggles, depression, anger, and coping with life changes, along with related concerns such as attachment, codependency, and body image.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and strength-based, focusing on listening, practical skills, and steady support to help people manage emotions and rebuild confidence.

What is her clinical experience?

She has 13 years of experience providing therapy and supporting people through trauma recovery, identity questions, and life transitions.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is an LMHC practicing in Hawaii and works under that credential in the state.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

Can international clients connect with this therapist?

International clients are accepted; confirm any time zone or scheduling details when you book.

How does pricing and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin therapy?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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