Alexa St. Martin is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who helps people in Hawaii work through relationship and self esteem concerns. She offers a calm, steady presence and listens to what matters most to each person. Her style is grounded and direct, aimed at practical change rather than labels.
She draws on approaches that emphasize relationship patterns and personal meaning. In sessions she pays attention to how early attachments shape current worries. She also uses client-centered and narrative ideas to help people tell and reshape their stories. Those methods often help with anxiety, depression, grief, and questions about identity or sexual expression.
Alexa has experience working in several community settings across Hawaii. That background informs how she approaches family-of-origin problems, separation and divorce, fertility and gender concerns, and other life transitions. She names issues like abandonment, attachment wounds, and body image openly in session and helps people sort through them step by step.
Her work includes addressing intimacy-related concerns, non-monogamous relationship dynamics, and kink-informed discussions in ways that focus on communication and boundaries. She also supports people managing panic, ADHD, and stress after disasters or other major changes. Sessions aim to build clearer communication and healthier patterns over time.
People who meet with Alexa can expect a collaborative process. She listens first, then helps design small, doable changes. Those changes are aimed at improving daily life and strengthening a person’s sense of self and relationships.
Approaches that translate to online work
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationships and emotional responses; it helps when people repeat old patterns with partners or feel insecure in close relationships. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on hearing the person's experience without judgment and supporting their own choices; it supports self esteem, coping, and clearer decision making. The Gottman Method offers practical tools for communication and conflict management and can be useful for people wanting concrete ways to improve relationship interactions.
Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work with each person to decide which methods fit their situation, goals, and preferences. That collaboration means plans can change as needs evolve and new priorities emerge.
Confirm current session formats before booking since options are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also lets people continue work between appointments by building skills they can practice in daily life.
Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems
Experience
3+ years
Credentials
Hawaii
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does she address?
She helps with relationship challenges, self esteem, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and intimacy-related issues. Additional areas include ADHD, body image, and communication problems.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is collaborative and listening-first. She combines attachment-focused work with client-centered and narrative methods to help people change patterns and tell different stories about themselves.
What is her background and experience level?
She holds a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential and has three years of experience in clinical practice. Her work has included roles across community settings in Hawaii.
Where is she based and licensed?
She practices in Hawaii and holds an LCSW credential in that state.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does she work with international clients?
She does not accept international clients at this time.
How are sessions priced?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the continue button on this profile, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.